I'm going to start this entry by suggesting that if I were to ask a large number of parents with and without MS what their hopes and dreams for their kids, were that the results would largely be the same. They would pretty much all hope that their children would live long, healthy and happy lives. They'd probably all wish that their children all found great, rewarding careers and, in due time, love. I'd also be very surprised if any would not hope for a fine gaggle of grandkids to spring forth from their well educated, rich, successful, blissfully happily married children.
The point I'm trying to make is that while having relapsing MS may affect how we feel and possibly what we can do with and for our kids, it largely doesn't affect what we want for them the same things that those without MS want. There is of course one noticeable exception I bet we all hope and pray that they don't follow in our footsteps with respect to this rotten disease!
There is one more thing that I want for my son, or rather something I don't want for him. I don't want him to worry about me and my relapsing MS. Not anymore. He worried enough during the first few weeks after diagnosis when my wife and I were unable to keep how freaked out we were from him. Since that time, I've done everything I can to assure him that no matter what, MS will not prevent me from being his Dad. And to ensure that is no word of a lie, I'm doing everything in my power to make that experience just the same as it has always been. What better motivation could there be to get (and stay) on therapy, exercise, eat healthily and otherwise do everything in my power to take control of my MS?
Oh yeah, and just to stop me from worrying about him contracting MS (1 in 40 odds are slim but not enough to ensure peace of mind), a cure would be nice too!
This journal reflects the personal experience of one person and others can be different. It is best to contact your doctor to discuss what's best for you. Tim is an MS LifeLines Ambassador and has chosen to share his story with other people living with MS. MS LifeLines and MS LifeLines Ambassadors are sponsored by EMD Serono and Pfizer.


