I'm very fortunate to live very close to two of my friends, Julie and Kevin. As I mentioned earlier, I recently moved and of course was living out of boxes. It's okay to live like that for a little while, but at some point you just need to unpack. A large part of my move included donating items I was no longer using.

As I unpacked, the pile that needed to be taken to the donation center continued to grow. I could have loaded my car by myself, made the trip to the donation center and then unloaded the car by myself. However, it would have been an all-day event. Using my new found ability to ask for help, I asked Julie and Kevin for assistance. Of course they said "yes" and we were able to complete the task in only two hours.

It was extremely liberating to be able to ask for and accept help from others. I've definitely learned that I need to speak up and ask for help. Asking for help has not made me any less of an independent person.